This is part of the Complete Ceremony Words Pack · $47
Everything else you have to say
Your vows are one of three or four moments where people go quiet and look at you. This pack handles the rest — the thank-you speech, the short toast, and the day-of logistics that keep it all calm.
Thank-You Speech builder
Two minutes, six moves. Fill each box and you have a speech.
One warm sentence to the room.
Names matter. Say them slowly.
Keep it brief and warm.
"Please eat, please dance…"
Short Toast / Welcome builder
Thirty seconds. Three sentences.
Short enough to shout.
Day-of checklists
The week before
- Print vows on a small card (and a spare)
- Practise out loud five times, standing
- Confirm speaking order with your officiant
- Send toast timing to whoever runs the room
The morning of
- Vow card in a pocket or with a named person
- Water somewhere you can reach it
- Tissues with someone in the front row
- Tell the photographer when you'll speak
Right before you speak
- Breathe out, not in
- Find your partner's eyes before the first word
- Slow down by a third
- It's fine to stop and start the sentence again